Where Support Meets Challenge
Understand Yourself | Be Yourself | Love Yourself
Before working with James, I harboured strong resentment toward a female co-worker. I was convinced she wasn't taking responsibility for her job, and her presence became increasingly irritating—to the point where I couldn't stand being around her. This negativity was seriously impacting my job satisfaction.
Working with James, however, opened my mind to something profound and transformative. Through his skilful questioning, he guided me to an unexpected revelation: my frustration with my co-worker was mirroring something deeper in my personal life—specifically, my own feelings about "not taking responsibility for my job" within my family relationships.
During our sessions, I had a thought about my mother and sister, though I didn't immediately grasp its significance. James helped me recognise that my resentment toward my co-worker was connected to my inflated sense of pride at work, and also, guilt about not taking responsibility for mending the relationship between my mother and sister, even though I believed I could (more pride). This insight was powerful—it not only transformed how I viewed my co-worker but also dissolved the guilt I had been carrying about my family dynamics.
In a remarkably short time, James helped me recognize and release the pride that had been fuelling my resentment. His coaching created a profound shift in both my professional and personal life. If you're seeking genuine transformation, I highly recommend reaching out to James.
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- Sam